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Melissa Bernstein
A mother of six, Bernstein and her husband were the founders of the toy brand Melissa & Doug. The couple left corporate careers to start their business, inspired to create something for children as three of their four parents were educators. Photo by Jackie Molloy

A Sense of Belonging

Melissa Bernstein 
 Co-founder of Melissa & Doug toy company
 Duke trustee
 ’87 Public Policy Studies

My time at Duke wasn’t the fairy-tale four years that many alumni fondly recall. It wasn’t Duke that fell short – it was me. I was still searching for who I was, unable to connect with others in a meaningful way. But as an alumna, I’ve discovered it’s never too late to create new memories and transform challenges into opportunities.

Fifteen years ago, I cautiously reached out to Duke, unsure of what it would lead to. Little did I know it would become one of the most transformative decisions of my life. What began as my judging a start-up challenge evolved into me joining the Innovation & Entrepreneurship Task Force, chairing the I&E Board of Advisors, funding the Melissa & Doug Entrepreneurs Accelerator, and now serving on Duke’s Board of Trustees.

With each step, I’ve encountered extraordinary people – alumni and staff alike – whom I now call my closest friends, people I cherish beyond Duke’s walls. Every time I land at RDU, it feels like returning home, embraced by the warmth of family and a community of like-minded individuals. Giving back to Duke has been one of the most rewarding choices of my life. It embodies the truth that “giving is more for the giver,” as it has blessed me with priceless gifts – friendship, growth, and a profound sense of belonging.